We mortals are a clumsy lot, tripping and tumbling through life, bruising ourselves and others along the way. It's not that we mean to do harm, we just respond to our circumstances without always seeing the bigger picture. But every day each of us witnesses true grace; we only have to open our eyes to it. People all around us are, through their words and actions, preventing the bumps and bruises of life, physical and psychological, from occurring.
I would like to learn to navigate the world more gracefully. As all true learning begins with observation, I am going to spend the next year seeking out moments of grace. In order to remain focused I have made this a two part project. First, I am going to tell someone each day that I appreciate the grace with which they navigate the world. In order to keep from interfering in their lives I have had business cards made up for the purpose. Secondly, I am going to share my experiences of each week here every Sunday.
I'd like to start by sharing a story that took place a few years ago...
An older gentleman of limited capacity was enjoying an outdoor concert. He danced right up front with all the children. Someone put a belt around his neck, not tight enough to cause any harm, so the children could lead him around the dance area. Though it hurt my heart to witness this, everyone seemed to be having a grand time and I could see no way to interfere on behalf of the man's dignity. But one person quietly objected. When his children joined in the game, he took them aside and explained that it was not kind to treat people that way.
For my first appreciation I tell that man,
Thank you for teaching your children to respect the humanity on all people.
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